Yesterday, I received an interesting comment that I wanted to share with you. This comment genuinely made me tear up—and not just because it was kind. But also because it reminded me of how far I’ve come. Let me explain.
When I first started creating content, I struggled with speaking on camera. And before anyone could ask why, I had a list of excuses ready:
• “My voice sounds terrible on camera.”
• “Talking to a camera feels so awkward.”
• “I’m too self-conscious.”
• “I use way too many filler words.”
• “I don’t sound like I know what I’m talking about.”
• “I don’t have that bubbly, vibrant personality other creators have.”
I repeated these phrases so often that I believed them. But one thing I noticed about successful creators was their ability to speak confidently. If I wanted to grow, I couldn’t let my excuses hold me back. So, I decided to change.
My husband, bless his heart, paid for a teleprompter app to help me feel more confident. At first, I relied on it heavily—and sometimes I still use it—but it wasn’t enough on its own.
Public speaking is like any other skill: the more you practice, the better you get. The more videos I made, the more natural I felt on camera. I’m not perfect, and I don’t think I ever will be, but my confidence and delivery have improved so much that people are starting to notice.
The comment I received said that my communication in tweets and videos is comforting and likable—like a “girl next door” vibe. What made it so special is that the video she referenced wasn’t scripted. I wasn’t using a teleprompter. I hadn’t planned a single word.
It was just me.
This is proof that “fake it till you make it” works. It’s not about being fake—it’s about imagining the person you want to be and practicing until you become them.
So, here’s what I want to share with you this week:
Visualise the life you want. Envision yourself as the person you dream of becoming. What does your day look like? What are you doing? What kind of impact are you making? Then, take small, consistent steps to get there. Use the tools you have, and don’t be afraid to embrace the journey.
One day, you’ll look back and realize—you made it.
Here’s to growth and transformation. Let’s make it happen together.
Love,
Oyin.
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